Evolution of one self is inevitable. We are who we are by our personal experiences, moments that shaped our being into the temporal, though at the same time we are being simultaneously modified by our current persona's perception that is living through our new and present experiences. So it is important to remind ourselves that we constantly change, and not only by our external realities but also by our internal frame of mind. This is why change is inevitable, and by recognizing that change is not something that won't happen or something to be wished for, rather it should be expected to occur next in the sequence of the clock's time. Experiencing this recent and still persisting global recession is a good area to begin with reminding our selves that everything is temporary and is always in transition. Recovery of the recession as indicated by a range of economic factors points toward the belief of recovery, though not a strong recovery, it still is a variable that detects the positive transition. Change has become a marketing slogan for politicians during recent and past elections that bear little fruit in people's lives once those running for office get elected. People expect others to always make some dramatic and super change in their own personal lives, and many are left empty and feeling cheated because this rarely happens. I strongly believe that the best change that can happen in one's own personal life will happen when one self activates that change for them self. Greater change will always occur in one self because one self has the mental capacity to create and engage in their desired change. Another person's influence is weaker than your own influence on your self. What you desire is in your reach, quit expecting others to reach out and get what you want just to please you. The change you want is the change in you, not others. now that's Real fucking Change!